Parenting is a lifetime job. For parents it can be very tricky and overwhelming especially when you start taking your kid to school. Most first time parents have a difficult time parting with their children and leaving them under someone else’s supervision. The first day of school can be teary to both the child and the parent.
It is important to teach the child to be self-reliant when you’re not around. Going to school means they are basically on their own under the supervision of the teachers. Teachers can be overwhelmed as they are dealing with a number of children and they can be a lot to handle. Teaching your child how to organize play items, go to the bathroom on their own without your assistance, putting their items in order etc. will be very helpful. This way they will have an easier time at school.
You don’t have to always help them solve all their problems. There are simple things that they can handle on their own. Detach from them for a while and see how they react or approach a problem. This will be very useful at school. If they are facing any problem with a classmate, you want to ensure that they don’t get physical in such a case but report it instead.
Part of being in a class means being a team. Teachers are amazing and they can surprisingly handle stubborn children of them all. They are well trained and use a number of ways to get them to cooperate. Some of the important ways to make sure your child is cooperative include praising them, developing routines and don’t be too harsh.
You want them to cooperate willingly without much resistance and without too much force. Kids like being rewarded when they do good so this will encourage them to keep repeating the good deeds. You also want to lighten up moments. You can involve games in chores so that they can get excited about it and will be willing to work with you. They are always up for something fun and engaging.
Every child requires discipline. There are different ways to discipline a child, for them to learn a lesson. Sometimes the child may not realize what they are doing is wrong until told so. Engaging the child and making them understand that what they are doing is wrong means they will know that they are expected not to repeat the same mistake.
Never delay punishment. Whatever form of punishment you mete out is most effective when done right away. If it is delayed it loses meaning and the child may not associate it with the wrong doing.
To sum up you should remember that children at a young age are best dealt with in real time. If you postpone, they will most likely forget or no longer feel reprimanded. by your punishment.